It's Sunday afternoon and darling husband says I can't have any cuddles until I write a post.
Cuddles are a major source of motivation for me because I am poorly.
Can you believe that my husband is using cuddles against a poorly wife?
It's quite shocking. Gasp inducing if you will.
Despite the shocking nature of this denial of cuddles, I am motivated. Apparently it's working.
So here goes.
I suppose we could start at the beginning.
We got married!
Except that's not really the beginning at all.
One time we got engaged.
But that's not really where we should begin I think.
We should really start here:
And here:
A random combination perhaps, but true nevertheless.
Adam and I met at institute.
Because of his shoes.
Maybe we shouldn't even start there, but even further back.
Here?
That's probably too far. (And yes, that really is me)
This makes more sense:
What are we even doing in Virginia?
Well, I will tell.
Because I am sure you are just dying to know. (Well, I'm going to tell you what I was doing here at least)
I was working (I always want to end that with the phrase "as a waitress in a cocktail bar") full time at a mediation center in Ogden, UT.
And when I say working what I really mean is: I was running it single handed.
In the meantime I was teaching at Weber State University, plying the unsuspecting public with a highly addictive substance and taking classes for a degree in my first love.
History.
Sigh of happiness.
Not to worry about the highly addictive substance, I wasn't endangering any innocents. I was just working here:
My contract (it was an Americorp job) at the mediation center was almost up. And my professor called one day and said:
"Would you like to go to DC?"
and I said
"Why yes, I would."
And that's how I ended up in Virginia. Living in a 6x10 room that I found on the lds listserve out here and doing an internship in Arlington. (The town, not the cemetery)
And then I fell in love.
But not with Adam yet.
Just Virginia.
So I went back to Utah for the Christmas break.
And then I came back to VA for another internship.
Because I loved the trees (the Scottish girl in me just loves and misses her trees).
And my roommates.
And the City of Washington D.C. All the living history here is amazing.
And it's beautiful too.
But back to the story.
Adam, Institute, and those shoes.
I went to Institute on Thursday Sept 4th, 2008.
It was my first week in the DC area. And my new roommate's boyfriend took me.
Afterward I saw this guy. With some awesome shoes on. Made of burlap. Seriously.
I love shoes.
And I love to give compliments.
So I combined both and told the tall guy with the good shoes that I liked those shoes. A lot.
In response to said compliment I received a slightly puzzled look and a half-hearted "thanks."
Adam thought I was sort of nuts. I don't know why but he says no one had ever commented on the shoes. Which I think is crazy. They are pretty marvelous if you ask me.
So, for weeks after that, while I was learning who everyone in the ward was and what their names were Adam was "the kid with the shoes."
And that's the beginning.